Herbalism, woven into the rhythm of family life, is one of the most grounding and nourishing things I’ve ever brought into our home. For over ten years now, I’ve been studying and practicing with plants — on myself, with my daughter, my parents, my niece and nephews, and dear friends — and it never stops being a journey of discovery. There is always more goodness to learn from our plant allies. What I’ve found is that once you feel how powerful herbs can be, curiosity just takes over. You want to learn more, experiment more, and share the excitement with everyone around you. Consider this your invitation to catch that “good bug.” I’m going to highlight a few herbs I return to again and again, in hopes that something here sparks a little magic in your daily rhythms too. 🌼 Chamomile If there’s one herb I’d recommend every family start with, it’s chamomile. Gentle, effective, and deeply soothing — it works beautifully on both the nervous system and the digestive system, which makes it endlessly useful for little ones and grown-ups alike. Chamomile Tea or Infusion Use 1 tablespoon of loose-leaf chamomile per 8 oz of hot water, steeped for 10–15 minutes. I love this before bedtime, or anytime my daughter has a tummy ache. One of my favorite combinations is chamomile and peppermint together — the mint adds a lovely brightness and makes it even more soothing for digestion. It’s also just plain delicious. Chamomile Infused Oil Roller This one is a staple in our house. Take a small glass roller bottle, fill it halfway with dried chamomile flowers, then top it off with a carrier oil of your choice — jojoba, sweet almond, and apricot kernel are all lovely. Seal it up and let it sit for 4–6 weeks, allowing the herb to infuse its medicinal properties into the oil. Roll it behind the ears, on the pulse points of your wrists, or over your heart. We reach for this before big social gatherings, before bedtime, or any time the nervous system needs a little tending. In this overstimulated world, it’s one of the most comforting things to have on hand. Chamomile Tincture Take an 8 oz glass jar and fill it halfway with loose dried chamomile. Fill the rest of the jar with grain alcohol, or organic vegetable glycerin if you prefer an alcohol-free option. Store it in a cool, dark place for one month, then strain out the herbs. What you’re left with is a gentle, concentrated tincture you can add to water, tea, or smoothies for quiet, steady nervous system support. 🫐 Elderberry Syrup Elderberry syrup is a fall and winter essential, and honestly, making it with kids is half the fun — it’s a wonderful sensory activity and they love being part of the process. You can find good-quality syrups online, but homemade is deeply satisfying and more potent. What You’ll Need: Simmer the berries, water, cinnamon, and ginger together for 45 minutes until reduced by about half. Mash and strain the berries, let the liquid cool, then stir in honey to taste. Store in the fridge in a glass jar for up to 2–3 months. Dose: Kids: 1 tablespoon Adult: 2 tablespoons daily, during cold/flu season or when recuperating from an illness. You can mix it with a little water to take as well. 🌸 Red Clover Tea Red clover is one of those quietly powerful herbs that doesn’t always get the spotlight it deserves. It’s mineral-rich, deeply nourishing, and wonderful for long-term wellness support. How to Prepare For a simple tea, steep 1–2 tablespoons of loose red clover in 8 oz of hot water for 10 minutes, strain, and enjoy. For a stronger, more medicinal brew, make an overnight infusion: combine 4–5 tablespoons of loose herb with 24 oz of hot water and let it steep on the counter overnight. Strain in the morning and drink throughout the day, or refrigerate and enjoy within 1–2 days. Benefits of Red Clover Helps with Hormonal Balance, Immune support, and it overall taste so good. 📚 Resources I Love Books: Anything by Rosemary Gladstar — she is the grandmother of American herbalism and writes with so much warmth and accessibility. Herb Suppliers: Please support these wonderful small businesses directly rather than purchasing through Amazon — you’ll get fresher herbs and your money goes straight to people who care deeply about quality. There is so much more to share, and I look forward to continuing this conversation with you. Plants have been humanity’s medicine and companions for thousands of years — and they are still here, patient and generous, waiting for us to remember. 🌿 Reach out to me for information on folk herbalism classes and groups starting soon, both in person and on-line! sacredspaceit@gmail.com
Self massage for you and your little one.
Taking time to slow down together. Generally speaking when people think of massage, it is usually along the lines of goingto a spa or place, where someone works on you, as you relax and lay there passively.Today I am going to share about the power of self massage and some fun techniquesyou can use on yourself as a parent, and on your kid(s). There are countless benefits ofmassage therapy, and when we share this practice as a ritual, it is also a form ofbonding and taking time to coregulate together, adding a drop into the well of self care,love and relaxing together. When you share massage, it invites us to slow down, taketime to light a candle, some incense or simply, to sit and enjoy the feel good sensationmassage brings. Benefits of massage therapy (just to name a few):-Decreases heart rate-Calms nervous system-Improves quality of sleep-Decreases cortisol levels in the bloostream- stress hormone-Touch increases release of serotonin – feel go hormone I recommend using a high quality oil such apricot, jojoba, sunflower, or you can evenuse coconut oil as well. If you would like an added benefit of relaxation on your nervoussystem, you may also add a drop of lavender, or another essential oil that is soothing toyou. Find a comfortable place in your home or in nature, take a seat and prepare torelax together. Simple self massage or partner massage sequence: your hands on each side of your cervical spine and pretend like you are playingthe piano on the muscles on the side of your neck, move slowly, breathe as yougo. As you begin to explore this self massage practice together, start to make it your own bycreating new techniques, and also incorporating tools like tennis balls, or rollers to themix. Most of all have fun and feel happy that you made time and space to slow downand be present with your child(ren).